Noticing favorite moments

Noticing favorite moments

There is a beautiful practice called the “favorite moment practice.” On your nightstand might be a piece of paper reading “What was my favorite moment today?” It might have a big heart around it. Then, as you get into your bed, you see it,...
Wrinkles – friends of foes

Wrinkles – friends of foes

There are wrinkles on my face, around my eyes. The skin next to my lips is becoming loose where it used to be tight. I said hello to my wrinkles this morning when I got dressed. Although not all of me was welcoming. Last week I read the fascinating book “Face:...
Making peace your life path

Making peace your life path

Acceptance of who we are is key to finding peace with ourselves. It’s hard to believe, but this year I will have lived half of my life in Germany, where I grew up, and half of my life in the U.S. How strange life is. When I came to America as an exchange student with...
The Surprising Space In-between

The Surprising Space In-between

“The crash after the sugar high” is the other title I considered for this blog. The experience that I hear most often described for the start of retirement is this: there was a small dose of anxiety and a huge dose of delightful anticipation before 3rd...